What Does It Feel Like When a Girl Likes Another Girl?

In this diverse world, love comes in various forms. The feeling of a girl liking another girl, known as lesbian love, is gradually stepping into the public eye. So, what exactly does it feel like when a girl likes another girl?

In terms of emotional experience
When a girl develops feelings for another girl, the sense of heartbeat is essentially no different from that in heterosexual relationships. Maybe at the first sight, she is attracted by the other's unique temperament, bright smile, or lively eyes, as if the whole world focuses on her at that moment. This kind of liking makes one feel concerned, always paying attention to every move of the other. When seeing the other person happy, one can't help but smile; if the other is troubled, one will be anxious and want to help solve the problems. For example, on campus, when seeing the girl she likes studying earnestly in the library, with sunlight shining on her hair, the girl who likes her will find the scene extremely beautiful, and her mood will be particularly bright all day because of this scene.

In terms of behavioral performance
When a girl likes another girl, she will desire to spend more time with the other. They may often make appointments to visit favorite exhibitions, watch movies, pick out suitable clothes for each other while shopping, and share every bit of life. Physical contact will also be more intimate than that between ordinary friends. They don't mind holding hands while walking on the street or giving a affectionate hug when parting. This kind of intimate contact is not simply a physical need, but more a natural expression of emotions, conveying inner love and care through physical touch. For instance, in a crowded crowd, they will hold hands tightly, as if this can give each other strength to resist the disturbances from the outside world.

In terms of psychological level
When a girl likes another girl, she will have a strong sense of identity and belonging to the other. They will feel that they are in sync with each other; many times, without words, a look can make them understand each other's thoughts. This sense of identity allows them to show their true selves in front of each other without hesitation, without worrying about being judged or misunderstood. They will also regard the other as an important part of their life, having a feeling of "we are one". They will sincerely be happy for the other's growth and progress, and are willing to put in efforts for this relationship. For example, when one achieves success in work or study, the other will be more excited than if they had succeeded themselves and feel proud of the other.

Lesbians may go through a complicated mental journey when facing their feelings. On one hand, there are still some voices in society that do not fully understand and accept homosexuality, which may make them hesitate to express their emotions, worrying about receiving strange looks or discrimination. On the other hand, they need to find a balance between self-identity and external pressure, and stay firm in their inner feelings. However, with the continuous progress of society, more and more people are beginning to understand and accept the homosexual group. Lesbians can also face their feelings more calmly and bravely pursue their own happiness.

The feeling of a girl liking another girl is delicate and beautiful. Like other forms of love, it deserves respect and cherishment.